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I have settled in Bangalore after my marriage. I got married early at my age of 23. My husband is running finance business along with his family members. Ours is a joint family of 6 and financially healthy. My marriage is a happier one as everybody would respect and care me well. But this didn’t continue for long. After two years of our marriage we lost of peace of mind inside the family the reason behind is that i could not get pregnant. We had done lot of mannath and done many medications nothing resolved. Even at the age of 30 years old i could not get baby coz of this, the family atmosphere had worsened. All the time i am blamed for not having k** in seven years. Though i had known i don’t have any physical problem i didn’t had enough freedom to raise my voice. We had mutually undergone several tests but all the results were kept hidden to me yet they blame my sterility. This made my life ruined and unhappy. In our last test one doctor had clearly told me that i don’t have any problem in becoming pregnant and she had also told that my husband’s sperm count is not positive to make me pregnant. Even though i cannot tell this anyone and simply had to take the blames. These blames started to grow up, and it went to the extent that to divorce me and for his remarriage. This time i was worried a lot, as i have not studied well and also my parents are not rich to run my life when i go back to my parents. As a matter of luck or whatever people may call, my in laws came with another doctor of our own community who is renowned for women and c***d care. I and my husband left to have a consultation with him. When we reached my mother in law first went in with the previous test results and spoke something in our absence, then he tested both of us individually and told us to visit 2 days later. We visited two days later. First he called my husband and sent him back and asked me to get inside his cabin. When i went he smiled and welcomed. He too told the same that i am very fine and able conceive baby and told because of your husband you are not getting pregnant. I was not shocked to hear this coz i did know this before. Since my tension was up coz of family threatening me to send me off back to my parents, i broke down and said all the things happening in our family. He listened carefully all i was saying. When i finished he left a big gasp of unhappy and said this is happening in our community for long, but i can say you, you can become mother but in any case your husband cannot become father. I said what i can do now for this? If this continues, i will be punished for no mistake. He said, sucheeta i know you may be sent back, yet if he re-marries also he won’t get k**. I asked is there any treatment for my husband. He laughed with a bit of unsatisfactory. Then he asked, see sucheeta, have you seen your husband organ? I was shy to answer, he said no shy here tell me then i told no. He said i expected this answer from you as large people of our community have never seen their husband in that way, but sucheeta your husband organ not at all developed with his age, its very small of about 6 yr old k**s have, and you must be knowing that he cannot enter you in anyway with such small organ, but he is able to generate sperm, but sperm count is not enough to make you pregnant as well his sperm is not positive to make any women pregnant. Over that i have seen his case history, he has taken all most all medication and nothing left. I broke again. He felt sorry and asked me calm down. I can understand your position. I asked, is there is no solution to me. He said, you have no problem, but with this man you can’t become pregnant. But if you make up your mind you can become mother. I asked how. He said, you have to get pregnant to another man. I felt irritated to here and he guessed that with my face. He then said sucheeta when these people are acting smart even after knowing its their fault its really frustrating to me when they are cheating you there is no point to think wrong becoming pregnant to another person. I said, how can it be possible? He said i can’t say that. I said they already know that he can’t make me pregnant, and if i become pregnant somehow then don’t they get doubt on me. He laughed, he said, i will help you out. I will say some treatment required for him; meanwhile you try some other person. I was still not ready to accept it. I said, i don’t have anyone here in this city who can give sperm. He again laughed hey sucheeta, to be frank you are beautiful, you are gorgeous and you have natural seductive body with which you can attract anyone. I left an unhappy gasp and said its not possible coz ours is a joint family and i don’t have anybody here. He thought for a while then he came towards me and said, sucheeta, i have one thought, its not compulsory as well you don’t take this into your heart, if you feel ok then you do as i say otherwise forget it. I agreed. Then he said, look sucheeta i never had thought like this to any of my patients but yours is a special for me as we are same community and you have touched me by saying your suffering at your in laws, if you like, i can help you to become pregnant in a month. I am not doing this for fees or something, i just felt to help you as well i too felt about your beauty which is flowing like beautiful monsoon, you are very pretty, you have seduced me naturally, lets not take this as help for each other. I just was blank to hear all these, never said a word. Then he asked, don’t worry, i don’t force you in anything, but i tell you this is not a sin you are doing, you are just taking your chance to reply your in laws who are playing foul also you can get your own baby and have this life settled. I said, how this can happen i cannot come alone anywhere and our home always filled with people. He then said, ok fine sucheeta first tell me are you ready to become pregnant to me. I said, if everything works right and no one comes to know then i am ready but i feel feared if somebody comes to know. He said, oh sucheeta don’t be afraid of all these things. I just manage your husband to send you to here to take a treatment for few days. I will manage perfectly that i don’t get any bad effects of this. I said ok. He smiled and said now you go and come with your husband. I came back with my husband and doctor said i have checked both of you; you both have minor problems which can be solved by medication of 15 days. He blabbered something in medical language about us and said your wife need to undergo everyday treatment for 15 days and he said he will also give tablets to both us to take. He said to continue intercourse during the medication and gave 100% assurance that i will become pregnant with in a couple of months time. My husband was happy this time and agreed. Doctor told my husband to send me in the afternoons from tomorrow. I don’t know how, but my husband asked can she come alone? Doctor said no problem. Then my husband asked treatment cost, he charged his usual charges and gave prescription for both of us and sent us back.