Whether you’re single or have a partner, indulging in self-loving from time to time can do wonders. Pleasing yourself not only helps you learn more about your body and what works for it but it also helps relieve stress, relaxes your mind, drives away cramps and makes you a happier person.
If touching yourself feels good and the way you plan to go about it causes no risk of injury, then you should seriously go for it.
Self pleasure, or masturbation, is a great way to have some solo fun or just release a little tension. Masturbating will also relight your inner flame if your sex drive is somewhat lacking. The more sex we have the more our body wants/needs, so masturbating 2 or 3 times a week can rapidly have you wanting more sex more often.
So, if you’d like to know a little more about self pleasure and bringing yourself to climax let’s get started.
Masturbation is a great way to find out what turns you on and what kinds of physical touching and fantasies make you most likely to reach the big ‘O’.
Get Into The Mood–
The first and most important thing you need to do is get yourself in the mood. Everyone varies in how they like to relax and get themselves ready. Some are in the zone just by lying on the bed and reading an erotic story. You may want to take a shower or a bath and rub on some moisturising cream or light a few candles. You may even like some relaxing background music to get you in the mood. If you are planning on using a sex toy make sure you have it close at hand. Whatever it is that makes you feel good and puts you in the mood then that’s what you should do.
Make sure you have privacy, you don’t want to be interrupted halfway to paradise. Always make sure you won’t be disturbed, put your phone on to silent and close the door.
Now you’re in the mood, comfortable, relaxed and feeling a little frisky, let’s move to the next step.
Stimulating The Clitoris—
Now this is where the fun begins. We girls are very lucky as we have this little gem called a clitoris. The clitoris serves no other purpose than bringing sexual pleasure. So it would be a shame to let it go to waste. It is there for your enjoyment only, so start making the most of it. The clitoris when aroused grows a little bigger in size. This is the female version of the penis, so you can stroke it and play with it in much the same way.
Slowly begin to gently rub your fingers over your clitoris. For some ladies rubbing directly may be too sensitive, try rubbing around the area instead for a more indirect contact. You will learn to know how and where to touch yourself for the best feeling the more you play. Get to know your own body, what feels good, what doesn’t etc.